Work and Play

Having worked in many restaurants, I know firsthand the social world behind them. In fact, one of the most positive things that comes out of working in a restaurant is the friendships you make. But, just like any job, it is important to make sure that these things do not interfere with your work!

Restaurants are by far one of the easiest places to work when you are hung over. Trust me. There is no sitting at a desk, praying for the next hour to go by. Rather, most of the time, since everyone works the same wacky hours, everyone else is probably hung over too! The world of restaurants makes room for late night drinking and late night partying as well and being able to function is quite simple. Word of advice, do not ever try to call out of work at a restaurant if you are hung over. Honestly, suck it up and go. Majority of the people will be in the same boat as you which will actually make working like that an interesting experience.

Another issue will be relationships. People always claim not to date anyone you work with, but the restaurant is no office place. In fact, sometimes it may be worse! The staff is usually smaller in a restaurant, BUT it may be easier to shift around your schedule to avoid the co-worker if things should go sour. Always watch your back however. Working in this business is pretty much like attending high-school. The day after a work party, everyone will know exactly what you did and who you were with!

While making the friendships in this upbeat world of serving others can be fun, it is important to remember why you are where you are! You are there to be a server, or bartender, or busboy, or manager. Not to socialize. Keep your dedication and diligence apparent and people will become friends with you as a result of respecting you. The friendships I have made from each job will truly last a lifetime. You not only learn to be self-sufficient as a restaurant worker, but you also learn what it means to be part of a team, which will aid you in working situations down the road.